Originally posted by TommyTommyTero at 20-10-2023 02:03
What do you mean by first time? First time having sex with a civilian? First time going to an erotic masseuse? ... First blowjob? First bareback blowjob? First sexual encounter? First bareback sexual ...
Yeah I am also confused by this; I feel some answers here are pertaining the first time having sex; and other answers here are about the first time getting paid sex.
First time sex: I was 19; I went to the bar with some guys I met in my neighborhood. In the bar, we came across two girls who were friends of the guys. One average looking girl who loved to chat and was quite smart and witty. One stunning looking girl who was extremely shy and quiet. Obviously I immediately fell in love with the stunning girl. Got her contact info somehow and asked her on a date. Stupidly (or maybe not) took her to a swimming pool on our first date. She looked gorgeous in a swimming suit. However we had no chemistry, there was no banter, she did not swim, all she did was look around at other handsome guys.
I also started chatting with the average looking girl (who was her friend), on MSN messenger at the time. Chatted more and more. I think around new year 2000, we came on the topic of sex. Said we were both virgins, said both of us were tired of being virgins, both of us were curious ... welll .. you know where this is going .. So we met, experimented, had sex, lost our virginities, had a relationship for 3 months, filled with lots and lots of sex, then finally learned that relationships are more than just screwing around and broke up ...
First time paid sex: I was 34; married, but selfishly really didn't feel like having sex with just one girl for the rest of my life; knew at one point I was going to cheat on her anyway; so I figure might as well do it while I'm still relatively young, .. found an advertisement on the internet; contacted the girl, booked a hotel, and met her. However since it was my first time, I was too nervous, it wasn't fun, it wasn't great and I regretted wasting my money on that, while masturbating would have been more satisfying, and cheaper. I did repeat a few months later, with another girl, which I had much more chemistry with, then I was hooked.