Subject: Losing an erection during sex with condom
hamburger141
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Losing an erection during sex with condom

I have a 4 & 1/2 inch penis when erect. Most of the time, i cant seem to ejaculate inside a WG while wearing a condom. i needed to masturbate near the end of the session. Its difficult to feel the walls of vagina and sometime penis will become soft and lose erection. Is it a condom size problem or too much lube they put in ? Any advice? Thank you

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rod1618   16-2-2024 15:45  Acceptance  +1   Exercise and losing some weight helps. Otherwise, get generic viagra/cialis from India
Jade_moon   12-2-2024 21:05  Acceptance  +1   Study have shown that a person weight/health does affect performance in bed.
shyrocket   10-1-2024 21:37  Acceptance  +2   Check sleep, stress, exercise, alcohol
jdman   31-10-2023 13:26  Acceptance  +4   Do you have any issues without the condom? If so, then try different condoms.
Susanlixxx   16-10-2023 19:59  Acceptance  +4   +1 for no wank.
HK_Legend   13-10-2023 09:51  Acceptance  +10   When it turns too soft to cum, for me it means: 1) tired too much playing, 2) no AC, 3) Too much KY, 4) Not enough rest ...
gentlemanne   13-10-2023 04:35  Acceptance  +2   There's different condoms thickness, you should try the "natural sensations" ones
quemseja   12-10-2023 13:31  Acceptance  +4   Girth or length?
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Try abstinence. If you wank too much you'll lose sensation.

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hamburger141   29-10-2023 01:55  Acceptance  +2   
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Reply #1 hamburger141's post

Why not place it in her mouth to finish?

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Post at 16-10-2023 23:04  Profile P.M. 
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Penile sensitivity worsens as one ages. Wanking less vigorously, abstinence before sex or more exercise might help. If u use viagra, switch to cialis. Honestly, if the easy solutions don’t work then it could be anything from testosterone, thyroid or even artery blockage problems. Then u’ll need to see endocrinologist, urologist or both.
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Post at 17-10-2023 22:34  Profile P.M. 
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OP seems to have problems only with condoms.. so i guess no problems bareback.

If it's condom only, you should really try differents brands and sizes.
As i said, you should definately get the "natural sensations" ones since they are thinner and you'll get more sensations with em.
Check for good size too, google is your friend to know more about differents sizes/brands.

Lubrification is a factor too, not enough or too much could reduce sensitivity.

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hamburger141   29-10-2023 01:58  Acceptance  +2   
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Post at 19-10-2023 14:35  Profile P.M. 
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This is why a lot of the older mongers I know are so interested in bare. A lot of times they can't keep it up with a rubber on. They'd rather get a bareback blowjob or even a handjob. Myself, I have no issues with erectile difficulty like that (and I understand that condom use adds not only a layer of protection but also gives many guys more stamina/less sensation). You mentioned that you needed to masturbate to finish. My advice, either get her to give you a bareback blowjob or a handjob to finish. Going soft is not unusual. Do what so many of the old timers do.

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HK_Legend   21-10-2023 09:59  Acceptance  +1   Be respectful to elderly LOL




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having sex with a new girl can be stressful, doing something illegal can be stressful. stress is bad for sex.

embrace modern medicine. cialis is cheap and easy to get. no reason to not take it.

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Post at 31-10-2023 13:29  Profile P.M. 
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response

I cannot change my reply.

I meant to say if you don't have those same issues without the condom, then it's most likely the condom.
Try different types and possibly play around with adding a different lube inside.

Even when young, I had issues with finishing while wearing a condom.
Finding one that fit my girth was key.
I wasn't long, but wider than average.

Nowadays, it's most likely due to old age too.

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Post at 9-12-2023 13:16  Profile P.M. 
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At +5 inches erect I find myself having the same problem,  especially if I’m nervous.

Ciallis and gas station pills probably will help but if you’re looking for a holistic approach I recommend improving your cardiovascular health if you haven’t been exercising.

I’m finding that on months where I’m not exercising my erections are weak and the nuts are pathetic.  Waste of money. However as soon as I’m 1 or 2 weeks into consistent exercise shit starts to improve by a lot.

I’ve also noticed that weed improves the duration of the erection.  I’m not quite sure why this works because I would assume If the sensation is magnified then I should bust sooner.  instead I end up having porn star level endurance, especially when my exercise is consistent. I suppose this would be a YMMV thing

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Have you tried with other women and different tightness? If you don't have the thickness, maybe she needs to be tighter?
Also, does anyone know what LB stands for or any other acronyms that show up so often on forums?

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Laszlo   12-2-2024 18:47  Acceptance  +1   LB stands for little boy, just another way for your member. https://forum.141-hk dot com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=23595 ...
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I`d advise not to finish with a handjob. Though it may seem frustrating to not reach an orgasm, or vexing for not being able to come, I think it is best to let her finish in her mouth and, if she doesn't do BBBJ, just go home as it is. The pressure your hand does its like making your penis ejaculate by force, not by pleasure. As time goes on, it only makes the problem worse.

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flappo84   15-2-2024 14:45  Acceptance  +6   Agree 100%
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Post at 16-2-2024 15:46  Profile P.M. 
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I have the same issue especially if I'm seeing girls back to back days. What helped is when I switch to using my own condoms instead of the cheap junk the girls have on them. I have two kind that really helps me.

Sagami original, large size.
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Skyn original.

For sagami these Japanese condom are super tight so even tho I don't consider myself large, the regular were too tight but large size was just right.

Skyn original fits just fine probably cuz American market is their main aim.

For both of these I can feel the warmth much better and just has a much better feel. And both of them aren't strangling my dick.

Also another problem is if the girl uses too much gel and it just like frictionless gliding. You have to politely ask to whip off a bit of that so you can actually feel something.
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